I know DB'ing requires that we give our WAS space and for us to back off and lovingly detach BUT for how long? I don't want to give my H the green light to continue with the A because it is "ok" with me since I am putting up with it or I don't want him to think that he is fooling me and getting away with something, cause he is not fooling anybody.
He will definitely continue with the A, cause he can. Do I have to talk with him?