Reacting has been my biggest problem. So along with GAL I am consciencely making an effort NOT to react to the negative stimuli. H and I are getting along much, much better; he has actually even called me "honey" a few times which to me is a term of endearment. What he does when he is not with me will no longer affect me. As everyone says, I cannot control him or his actions. He is the one that has to live with himself and the consequences of his actions. I am making an effort not to let what he is doing or not doing bother me (well, it does bother me) but I am choosing not to REACT to it. Know what I mean?
