Thanks so much! It appears we entered this site around the same time and I would really like to talk to someone that is going thru the same thing as me. The few people that know of my sitch do not understand why I am still here. I tell them that until they are in my shoes they really don't know what they will do. I will definitely send you an e-mail, hopefully sometime tomorrow, as sometimes I get freaked out about my anonimity (sp) on this board. I sometimes think that since my H knows that I read DR that him and OW come here to check on me - I know it sounds crazy but I am a little paranoid.

Right now I think we are both in the same place, so if we can be a source of encouragement to eachother to not give up I think that would be great.