Ya know, I feel that a few of us here, on the boards, are going through the same phase that GH describes....pulling up for air and letting the feelings of anger/resentment creep up. Too soon. I realize that now. I'm giving myself 1 week to go back, but respecting that I have those feelings, but not time for them yet.
Same goes for you. You've come so far....go through the process the right way to see what you can achieve. Don't blow it b/c you jumped ahead.
I think you're on the right track. Really listen to H and what he's saying with his lack of affection, his rantings about not being sexual. It's an issue, leave it at that and work on it.
GH is right....your needs are yours now. H is observing, testing and watching all the time, so no time to slack now.
