Thank you both so much for your kind words of encouragement!
Quote: And I believe that your H and many of the WAS are torn, deeply conflicted - because we have changed and we aren't the insane emotional demanding ones they remember. They are trying to figure out what is the best thing to do. They realize their emotions got the best of them, and they reacted perhaps with bad behavior, and they are trying to figure it out now so they don't make it worse.
I believe you hit the nail on the head here, PL. Like the wise GH has said, don't believe everything they say, look at what they are doing. A few months ago H was going out almost every night after work and staying out all night at least once a week. The past 2 weeks he has been coming straight home from work every day. He is more involved in our home and in our kids lives. If anything, the biggest thing that I see from this is in our children. They are much happier, their grades are improving and they overall are in a much more secure and better place. So....stop the pity party...I've gone this long with no sex (6 months), so what's a little while longer. Right?
