Thanks Leslie, I really appreciate your stopping by. I too think guilt and leftover feelings from the A may play a part in this as well as his feeling that I was just not into him. Several times he has referred to my previous marriage, I think he is not feeling good enough like maybe I settled for him or something. Anyway, we did have a good sex life but once the kids starting coming it slowed down alot. Right now he is having a hard time remembering the good times and is probably guarding his heart from any future pain. I guess I really need to help build up his self esteem. So he feels comfortable around me again and that I mean what I say "That our R should be the #1 priority, instead of putting the kids and everything else first."
Thinking of learning how to rollerblade to get rid of some of my frustration
