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What is/are his reasons for a lack of interest?



He says that although he feels close to me and thinks we are best friends, he doesn't feel we ever had a great physical relationship. I didn't argue or defend. I just listened and validated. I really think the years of rejection from me really hurt his pride. Nothing I can say will change how he feels right now. I think in time, his feelings may change. But I will have to really DB my butt off (figuratively, as literally it's gone due to the LBS diet). This will require a tremendous amount of patience as this is now hurting my self-esteem. (Must be how he felt, huh?)

My horoscope says: Set expectations can be damaging. Be flexible and you can have more fun than you thought possible. Your darling loves seeing this carefree side of you -- and frankly, you're enjoying it quite a lot yourself.