Here my .02: As a woman, I feel the need for sexual affirmation of both the R and myself. In a committed R, if there is no sex, I KNOW that something is amiss.

What is/are his reasons for a lack of interest? Is it something about HIM, or something about YOU? Has he had a physical lately? Is he impotent?

GH is right--it will take time to make it work. But, is he looking at why he has no desire? It could be purely physical. It could be related to your R. It could be emotional--stress, things he hasn't dealt with. C and his doctor might be able to help figure out what is going on, and I think that they are avenues that should be explored, coupled with GH's recommendations.

More hugs your way!!!