Had a phone conversation with H yesterday for about an hour. The gist of it is this: he thinks we are getting along much better lately. He thinks our R is based on genuine friendship (which I think is good), he does not think our R was ever based on sex. He said I have been a great wife and mother, but he is not interested in having a physical R with me. I asked ever? and he said he didn't know.
Now, here is my dilema. My C cancelled my appt. for tonight so I need some psydo-counselling from you guys. Do I stay in a sexless marriage? Do I give H some more space to get thru his "crisis"? I love him with all of my heart and feel that we are best friends (and he feels the same) BUT I cannot be in a relationship with no affection.
