Quote: A boundary can be drawn on either side of the "still taking phone calls" line, you know, lol...
OT, can you elaborate on this as I am not sure what you mean.
More journaling, last night we sat out on the front porch and talked, (Not about our R) but about a lot of things. It was a real back and forth conversation. It felt really good. Later in the evening we are talking about my H's job. He has an opportunity to take a different position so we were weighing the pros and cons. He just can't decide. I said that while listening to him it reminded me of our situation. He can stay in his current position that is stable, dependable and he can count on getting the hours he needs or he can take the new position that may offer more variety and excitement but he may not get all hours he wants. I said our M is like the stable, dependable position and the new position would be like leaving for unchartered waters. He said not to compare the two and that he wasn't going anywhere, he was staying in our marriage. There was much more to the conversation but I don't want to bore you all. In the end he asked me to sleep in our room again then pulled me to him and hugged me and told me how much he appreciated me talking to him about things. I felt really supportive and loving!
