Mama:
I am working through the same thing, but over a lot shorter course. Even though it's only been a VERY short while, H mentioned in passing after C on Monday (after I asked him how the OW was doing, very casually) that he and she have only rarely been talking.
Hope springs eternal...
And with it come so many shades of grey.

I lend you some of my hope. And peace.

Hugs again,
Kathi