The end of another nice, peaceful day. Declined invitations from both sides of the family since H works 6 days a week and because of all the crap going on. Spent a really nice Easter with the kids. They had an egg hunt etc., we just basically hung out. H did a little more painting - work in progress. We also worked on our finances - together. When he went to bed I gave him a hug and he hugged me back, really tight, I kissed him and told him ILY and he said ILY back.
We have started leaving notes for eachother again in the morning (since he leaves before we all wake up); I wrote the following: "Good Morning! Had a really nice, peaceful day! Thank you for showing committment to our family and marriage. I think working through the pain and disappointment and not throwing in the towel is a way to rebuilding our relationship. I really think we are doing the right thing. I hope you have a great day! Love, me
Hope that was ok.....
P.S. When we talked about our finances I presented two options, A - if we stayed together and B - if we split up. H wants to go with plan A and said he is committed to his family. I know he still has contact with OW, but I will let that slide for now and hope that in time and with my DB'ing that R will fall by the wayside.
