From OG_Lou's thread I told myself I had to leave several times but only stopped posting for a couple of days.
LFL, I enjoyed your posts and sorry to see you leave the board. I am still thinking about what you said "Oy Vey. You men. Get your heads out of the books and in between our legs.......You need to be able to read the subtle nuances of a woman, not the words in any book. " I appreciated that advice.
In this thread, I said I wanted to reduce my black or white thinking and/or actions. Please consider that thought for your situation. I think this forum has help many people but it can also be addictive.
I find many things that work for a while then they don't work anymore or some other problem comes up so I come back looking for more answers either here or hopefully in a book.
Sometimes I find answers here, some time I find the strength to continue with any new solutions to our problems. Other times I feel like I rely too much on some outside influence and am just addicted to hope.
Even though we can't make your H do anything you want him to do, we still think of you and value you as a good friend and are always here wishing you well. I just wanted to say, visit when you can. Post a little update if you feel like it.
Lou
Thank you Lou for that post from a few weeks ago. You are a kind man. This board can be addicting so I am trying to cut back, but I find the people here so interesting it is hard to stay away. Plus, like you, I am trying to reduce the black and white thinking too. I'm usually all in or all out. kwim? On the board or off, in the M or out. It's tough to find that middle ground but I am really feeling some progress in this area. Everything in moderation I guess. I'm even cutting back on the chocolate consumption, lol. But I can't give that up. Hope you are well and good luck with your IC!
