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#693625 04/28/06 08:36 PM
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I have read a lot of the postings on your thread, Alison, and I really do feel for the situation you find yourself.

Just thought I would comment on the "sorry" statement from your H .....

My H was also very apologetic about the pain he was causing me and our kids, even though he was determined to get a D. To them, I think, their pain supersedes any guilt they feel over the pain they are causing their LBS's and children, but they are sincerely sorry. Now that my H is back in the M, he still says he is sorry about what he did, on occasion, but does not want to talk about the details. In fact, it seems as if he has forgotten most of what happened. Weird!

I hope your weekend goes well, and that you allow yourself to have some fun and relaxation, and remember to be your own best friend before being his friend.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
#693626 04/28/06 09:21 PM
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BM thank you for taking the time to read some of my postiings on my thread I appreciate that. Thank you also for the insight into apologies as you see them. Please do continue to visit me I am eager to learn from those who have been successful


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15
#693627 04/30/06 06:45 PM
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SE amd BM
i could do with your insight over on my main thread
Alison's current thread

Thanks


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15
#693628 04/30/06 08:08 PM
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Sure...I'll be over there in a bit to check it out. Sorry, I didn't see your reply to my last post. Just saw it now.

~SE


I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.


Me-32
WAH-35
DD-11
DS-4
H left 11-03
Piecing- 12/04
WAH again- 03/07
Married 12 years
Divorce final May 15, 2007
#693629 05/05/06 09:59 PM
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SE,
When you have time could do with you dropping by my main thread again. If i recall rightly you actually went through D with H. It seems like mine is def heading that way now. As ever your input would be much appreciated.
Thank Alison


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15
#693630 05/15/06 09:54 PM
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Hope the move went well SE


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Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15
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