Thank you for your prompt reply SE it must be hard staying on this board whilst trying to reconcile. My thoughts on his apology are that they were sincere. I'm trying not to read anything more into it than that. If he were thinking of coming home why would he do it the day before he was due to move into his new flat? All I can imagine is that for whatever reason he could not keep his guilt under control yesterday. Have just sent him a simple TM this morning saying I hope everything goes to plan today. I thought that's what a really good friend might do!
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15