Alison- Great question!! While we were seperated, I don't believe that he actually apologized then. He said many times how he knew how badly he messed things up and such, but never an apology until we got back together.
I knew he was coming back around I would say at Thanksgiving, when he would linger at the house a bit...talk to me about how empty his R's were, etc.
I do think it IS a positive. He is stepping beside his own needs and wants, and he is recognizing what he has done/is doing. I don't know your H at all, but maybe this is his way of starting to come back around. Only you know him well enough to answer. Whether or not it was related to your TM is irrelevant, he could of chose to ignore it and not say anything. So, I see nothing but positives in the fact that he did say it, and said it more then once.
Your thoughts on this? I hope I am making sense here.
~SE
I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.
Me-32 WAH-35 DD-11 DS-4 H left 11-03 Piecing- 12/04 WAH again- 03/07 Married 12 years Divorce final May 15, 2007