SE Just being able to liaise with someone who has been there and has kids and has come out the other side is a huge bonus. I really appreciate your time and kindness. When my H came to see D16 on her birthday this week we didn't know what time he would be arriving so as it happened I had the Beatles turned up full blast, was singing along with gusto and dancing whilst doing the ironing. I must have looked and sounded really happy when he came in. I'm unable to say the same thing about him. He looked tired, didn't seem to have bothered shaving for a few days and thouroughly fed up. Now that might have been b/c he was pining for bimbo but who knows!
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15