I waiting patiently for the euphoria to wear off but there is no sign of it yet. I've heard it can take 2yrs and I'm not sure my kids can hold out that long let alone me!
When OW moved it was to move in with her best friend and apparently is has been a dream of thiers for a very long time. I understand that having H around has already caused some problems between OW and best friend so let's hope girl power prevails soon!

Does your H recognise his mistakes now and if so what is he doing to try and rebuild a close R with his kids? Is there anything I can do to help my kids through this? I've tried explaining to them that IMO he is depressed and that forgetfulness is part of that as is selfishness. However they just see that as me defending him which is obviously the last thing I want them to feel.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15