To the brink of Divorce

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Yes...I agree....YUCK! My H will deny the lure of the euphoria up and down, but it is too ironic that when things got real between the two of them after it wore off....they fought constantly and broke up.

Unfortunately, it's the kids who suffer the most. You really hit home with your D not wanting to see her dad. My D said the same things to me. She didn't want to go over there, she wanted to stay home with me. He was so wrapped up in OW that she felt neglected and not wanted, not to mention that he walked out on her when he walked out on me. Even now, when things have gotten too heated and I leave the house when H is acting like an @ss....she will not stay with him, she always wants to leave with me. So, when he wakes up someday, and he will, then he will face the ramifications of pushing his children aside and it will come back at him tenfold. Just like my D always wanting to be with me, and my S being a mommy's boy...never wants dad. Even after a year and half back together....they are still not as close to him as they were and he is paying for it everyday.