To the brink of Divorce

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That's a good question. When H and I were seperated, he kept his obligated time with the kids. I will say that he paid no attention to them when he was with them, he spent his time on the phone with OW. There were some "accidents" with my kids because of his falling asleep during the day.

So, it could be a little of both. If he is in MLC he is going to be a jerk. My H wasn't in MLC but I DO know he put his affair and the OW before anyone or anything else in his life. I think it's the initial "high" and the "Euphoria" of it all.....like a drug they can't get enough of. Maybe that is why your H is on his second OW...chasing his "high"? Just a thought.