Alison- We do have two kids. When H is being a jerk towards them, I always call him on it. I tell him to cut the crap. However, H has been known to act out when angry so I do it mostly because I don't want the kids seeing him act that way....or being treated like $h!t.

While we were seperated, he asked our D10 (8 at the time) to lie for him and withhold information from me. I got on his butt about that too. No matter what, there is never a good reason to do that to your children. I don't know if any of this answered your question. I guess my point is no matter how good or bad things were between H and I while together or not, I never let him take anything out on the kids if I can help it.

If you have anymore questions or issues.....ask away!

~SE


I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.


Me-32
WAH-35
DD-11
DS-4
H left 11-03
Piecing- 12/04
WAH again- 03/07
Married 12 years
Divorce final May 15, 2007