To the brink of Divorce

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Alison- When H came back was on X-mas eve of 2004. On an impulsive (and drunken) move I decided to reconcile. It took me a week to break up with my b/f. To this day, I still have the "what if" the unresolved issues and feelings, etc. I had truly moven on and now H and I are struggling like heck to get back what we once had, I will admit it is NOT easy.

I, too, hope your sitch doesn't come to that. But just wanted to let you know that even if it does.....just mourn the death of a bad marriage and pray for the opportunity to build a better, stronger one.