That's about as simple as it gets... and therefore... brilliant. Dam it... it is just AMAZING how lost I can get in my own crap...
Lil:
Quote: Is the problem dealing with post-violation fallout? Or you're afraid the boundary will be run over again because you've lost credibility?
Yes to question one... and... the ATTEMPT at the boundary WILL be made again because I have lost credibility because I have let someone repeatedly get away with something and did not stick to my guns on the issue. Doing so made me feel like an ogre... but rather than put up with some short-term discomfort to defend my sense of integrity... I'd crumble... and stomp all over my integrity so I didn't have to feel like an ogre and all those icky feelings that go along with it.
But now I feel worse than an ogre for sacrificing my integrity, and not dealing with the issue.
In any event, I have to suck it up and FIX it... for ME... and what Honey said... keep it simple, keep it straight and DO IT... Gawd, it is amazing how complex we humans can make things just to avoid conflict/pain....
