All:

I'm in need of a bit of advice. You know how it's easy to see what others do, but it is nearly impossible to see it in your own sitch?

Okay... here's one for you from the boundary queen herself... 'cept... I don't have a solid idea yet how to adjust myself.

Without going into any detail... I have a BOUNDARY problem. I have violated my own boundary (on this one instance) so many times, that I now lack all credibility when it comes to this issue.

Okay. I know I've done this. I know it is my fault, and my fault alone.

How, now, do I correct? Just DO IT, and come off looking like a nutcase... but who the heck cares, since what I look like isn't the issue... the violated boundary is the issue... or do I repackage the boundary... and stick to IT?

:: CRAP :: I HATE when I do this... SEE!? If I had stuck to the dam boundary, I wouldn't BE in this position... let this be a lesson to you all!!

Okay. Fire away.

Corri