Cobra,

My daughter is not having a hard time of it financially. D19 makes 800-1200 a week working part time. She is well aware she can do this with just simply being friendly and smiling. No need to spread her legs to get what she wants. So I am not real concerned that she is doing something that her will effect her self respect.
We have discussed this and I have told her that under no circumstances is she to quit her job and become a kept woman.
And at this time I do not think my D is doing anything that will damage her self respect. She is still learning and maintaining her independence. Though the guy has bought her a few presents. Sun glasses from Paris a purse from ? I forgot and a watch I dont think at this point she has excepted anything that will make her feel bought.
He has offered to jet set her off a few places but she has declined. (she does not like flying). And has only went to semi local places with him. He has told her that he would like to take her to England so she can meet her grandfather. And she informed him maybe later and only if I travel with them there.

I think more then any thing she is taking this casually and viewing it more in the lines he can hold her interest and so she likes him and likes spending time with him for now.