As I just stated to Lou. And the more I think about it the more comfortable I am with the sitch. I don't think my daughter is being unrealistic and plotting out a future with this guy. I know she is not looking to fall in love and live happily ever after at this time. I am sure she is just in it for the enjoyment of company at this time.
And I think someone else made a good point, that after having this "princess" type experience with him, even if she is taking it casually, it may really mess her up for future "normal" R's
True or it could be a good balance for her to see that the treated like [censored] experience she got the first time and that the way her dad and mines relationship is not the normal relationship. And something that she has to settle for.
I see issues I see this relationship never evolving into anything large scale. I am not going to make the man a monster in my mind I have to many male figures that play that role already. Other then the not understanding the body guard issues I am not going to become to concerned with this unless I see my daughters attitude change. well lets admit it I have no real say in the matter anyhow she is a adult.