Chrissy,

Long ago when I was in college, I was a DJ at a very successful nightclub. That place couldn’t count the money fast enough. The co-owner was young at the time, maybe mid to upper 30s, and was having the time of his life, also hitting one oil well after another. He was hanging out with other rich men and they had a sort of unspoken contest going to see who had the best looking girlfriend. Not only that but who had the most.

I knew his stuff pretty well because he got his start in the small town where I went to high school and his “main” girl was my old high school girlfriend. He paid for an apartment that they shared, but eventually he had 3 or 4 other girls that he helped support – that included a job at this club, maybe some rent or school tuition payment, plenty of gifts and vacations (which were sometimes joint affairs will all of his “harem”). So he would take turns entertaining and sleeping with each girl on a particular night of the week. His “main” girl got to see him 2 or 3 times a week.

It was all a huge ego boost and he had the money to do it (this was back in the early 80s and the heyday of the Texas oil/real estate boom). My point is that this guy sounds like he could be looking to create his own harem too. He may be a nice enough fellow but I seriously doubt he has any interest in someone so young. He may only want someone attractive to hang on his arm for as long as he can and to live out any sex fantasies. If she gets tired of being a trophy catch or starts to demand too much, then he will just dump her and find another one.

Doesn’t it sound odd to you that a CEO, with his own company and his apparent wealth, would clean her apartment and scrub the toilet? He is being WAAAAY too nice. It is false and it is all a trap. He may not hurt your daughter and she might get a lot of gifts, get to travel, get completely spoiled, but I don’t know how that will help her grow. Eventually he will move on, then she will have to settle for a “normal” guy on a normal budget with a normal (an boring) lifestyle. That would be a hard letdown for her to handle. I wouldn’t want my daughter to go through that.


Cobra