Whew Chrissy. I think your DD is learning some lessons the tough way (don't we all). I am worried about this guy - that it isn't as kosher as it all sounds and/or that the age difference will result in a controlling, infantilizing R that will hurt your DD in the long run. But, of course, you can't do anything to stop that. She has to learn her own lessons. It must be so hard to decide what to say and what not to say.
