Hi Chrissy!
Sounds like your H is at least trying? With more WOA and such?
That's good. Also glad to hear work is helping with your attitude. Keeping busy with work, exercise, etc is a great way to relieve some stress/depression.
So your 19 year old D is dating a 40+ guy? I'd be suspicious too. Ah, but the proverbial, beauty and power combo, all too common I guess. I'd just worry about her getting in over her head.

Keep well!!
And have some chocolate