recognized strategist in demand management, competitive positioning, and global marketing.....owns his own business that is a pharmacutical consultant company

I had a gut reaction to this.

Your 19 year old daughter who not only has damaged boundaries but is not sure what they are currently is dating a conscionless, desire manipulating, spin doctor (excuse the pun.)

I am judging this from the company he keeps and I have extrapolation issues, that I should really reserve for Wei qui and chess, so I hope the best of his intentions and for your daughter.

since you have been on this BB so long, Ill take your word that her xH is 'a dog' (since they do exist), but I was surprised by your remark.

Your H has made some really positive changes lately. I am happy that you have received these improvements in your M.

Be well, Chrissy. ( translation... go eat something. If you monitor yourself youll be surprised by how differently you feel in general, if you eat regularly.)