As you know I have been lurking about a bit. So I thought I would dig my post out blow off the dust and let you all know that I am doing fine.
My hours are slowing down at work. Matter of fact I will have a two week break between strawberry season and tomato season.
Going back to work part time has done wonders for my attitude. I no get up in the morning no more sleeping until noon. And I am more motivated around the house.
S13 has came back home from his gramas since school is out. He is taken up residence in S11 room. They use to share a room years ago. Dont know whats up with that must be a security thing.
S15 and S11 Did wonderful in school both passed with flying colors. S13 failed again and we have to do the summer school thing again. Been thinking about just letting him fail. Instead of playing this game every year.
Sports are pretty much over for the summer. S15 has football camp and practice and wrestling camps to go through the summer need to find something for the other two boys.
D19 is doing great in her new apartment. She has a new boyfriend. I have mixed feelings about this. It's not that he as is old as me that bothers me. It is not that he has money that bothers me. I think it is great that she is getting to experience new things. What bothers me I think is this guy has body guards and when she is with him she has her own personal body guard. I am uneasy with that. I do not see why this guy needs body guards. He is a professor and he is a doctor and he owns some large companies and he is rich. But body guards that one just does not sit well with me. I actually thought about asking Chrome if he ever heard of this guy since they both travel the lecture circuits. Oh well any way.
H and I are still in the same place. We spent the weekend going back and forth to his brothers house spending time with his kids and brother, It has been a long time since we have done that kind of thing together. H has started this new thing. That I need to change my behavior so I do not loose him. It is kinda funny. He seems to think he can challenge me by making me feel I am under threat of him leaving without threatening me. He has even taken to texting me every day silly little things. This mornings text.
Hey there beautiful sure is a hot one today. That or the heat is comming from your hot bod. Love ya!
Plus he has taken to having long conversations via text. Says that way he cannot get mad at me for what I say or I cannot get mad at him. Now he will be downstairs texting me and I will be upstairs texting him back. Sorta silly but does cut down on the arguing.
I am still looking at moving out this month if I can afford it. But it seems that my karma sucks right now. First my jeep broke down then his truck then as soon as we got them back on the road my back window imploded. And now the darn thing is over heating within minutes of turning it on, So the money I had put up is dwindling and my hours at work do not look hopefull of refurbishing the stash in the next week or so.
Well off to change clothes and mow some grass. Hope everyone is else is doing well
Things sound pretty challenging around your homestead. S13 failing sux and that bodyguard deal is quite scary. Keep us posted on how things go. It is funny how sometimes we hear each other better when we write.
I just want to mention that if you did have the talk with your husband and you don't follow through you will lose all credibility. I have been there and done that before.
Maybe this guy is so rich he feels the need for a body guard?
Yeah just dont understand why any run of the mill person okay rich person needs a body guard. It is all mafia like to me. And that unnerves me
I agree. If I were you I would conduct a background search on this guy. I don’t know if the FBI helps people with this sort of thing, but if he has mafia or drug connections, they will probably know about it. And if he is a bad guy, they might also like to know where he is.
People don’t get stuck in the mafia and then can’t get out for a reason. I wouldn’t like the idea of my daughter getting stuck in such a situation. I think you should be covertly proactive here and find out what your daughter is getting into.
lol Getting that annulled H was a dog and brought home a STD. New that would not last.
Did google the guy he has one hell of a resume.
earned his Ph.D. from the University of Oklahoma and is an internationally recognized strategist in demand management, competitive positioning, and global marketing. He has received other honors including: Person of the Year In 1998 by the National Society of Accountants in recognition of his market research and strategic counsel, Honorary Member in 1999 by the United States Department of Defense Special Operations Command in recognition of his strategic contributions to the core, and the academy of Outstanding Teachers at NC State University.
Dr. Javidi is a frequent speaker on competitive intelligence and market strategies for various industries including life sciences, telecommunications, retail and service. He serves on the board of the National Association of Corporate Directors and select private and public corporations.
He also owns his own business that is a pharmacutical consultant company and owns a pharmacutical company.
Maybe the military stuff is why he has the body guards?
