HD.

I think I speak for a lot of us here when I say, I'm a bit worried about you

No worries yet I am keeping a low profile.
I have learned from the past this is not one of those things I am going to talk over with the H and try to get things worked out in advance.
Until I am ready to make the move I am not making any waves. Gonna go more for the vacate then notify approach this go round. Thinking that is my safest best.