I wholeheartedly agree with that statement.....which is precisely why when I left my XH, I waited until he was gone.....packed a bag, got my cat and left with $40 dollars in my pocket. There have been so many things that Chrissy has said about her H that have reminded me of my XH. There's a big part of me that just wants to go where she is and stand there with a big lead pipe in my hand while she packs. Just that protective friend/sister thing kicking in I guess.
