Yeah its wierd because when I read your first post as I stated you could have been my H talking.
Nothing you say can make my sitch harder. I really do not feel in such a bad place. I just am at a place where I do not see a point in continuing to try to fix something my H does not feel is broken. It is sort of counter productive and like swimming in quick sand from my point of view.
I wish you better luck in fixing your sitch then I have had in mine. But I firmly believe if both people are not on board and working on the same goal it is sort of a dead end situation. And we either settle for how things are or we go about changing them in other mannors.
Where your wife is asking for space I was asking for time in heal from some of the bad. Space is so wide open and the reason for it is what? What does she mean by space. Do you stifle her individuality Are you completely insecure leading you to be overly jealous and controlling?. What does she need space from does she even know. It took me a long time to figure out what I needed from my H. And the sex part was only a last ditch effort.
If you have questions of me, feel free to ask, I'll gladly respond with my POV, I'm here if you need me, use me as a resource. I'm Happy to help
Same goes here. Feel free to ask me or state anything you like. I will be glad to give you my POV on the sitch. Just remember it will be from a different angel then yours.
