Fear does not play into that statement. I really don't fear my H in the bedroom. But my lack of respect for him and negative feelings towards our relationship and the lack of emotional connnection outside the bedroom does not leave me in a place that I desire him in the bedroom.
We fear disturbing the comfort zone or upsetting the apple cart.
I experience these types of fears also. Not just for fear of his angry outburst. But again I state this has been my life for so long it is just life to me. And any varient from it can still bring along the fear of change feelings most people have.
Let me tell you your post to Cobra blew me away. I myself would not have been able to state specifics from my past thread with such accurate dates and structures. I know we have discussed a lot of things in the past but which aspect on which thread I am not really sure. Thank you.
