And that means looking inside and doing some very uncomfortable things, things your H may or may not be capable of.
I think this goes both ways. I am sure that my H could sit her and tell you all I do not do this and that for him. And he does this and that for me. I know my H would say that I do not put enough effort into being physical Just as I say he does not put enough effort into us being friends/communicating.
Chrissy, I admire the honest talk that you had with your H and your boundary setting. You have done so much...take some time now to take care of you.
Took me alot to do it. And seems like it was all in vain. But it has helped me finally decide what direction I want to go.
