Mojo, I get very much where you're coming from. But there is an element of Chrissy's sitch that must not be overlooked (and Chrissy, forgive me if I'm putting words in your mouth).
Chrissy's H is not just an enthusiastically HD person like you, whose desire is not matched by your partner-- she has actually expressed fear for her safety in the past. My understanding is that her H has the potential to be violent. To me this sets him apart from you and from Happy Giant and the other HD people on this board who express varying levels of unmet desire. I get the impression that Chrissy's H is something of a bully, and frankly, even if she were meeting his sexual needs (which I believe she did pretty religiously for a long time with her two-a-week schedule), he can still be really mean and is potentially dangerous. (There was some talk of dog cruelty a while back.) Hence the mention of the restraining order earlier this week. I think her sitch is about more than his SD being higher (she has said she is really quite naturally HD) and her needing more EC-- he's basically a dangerous man.
