Chrissy...that cloud of depression and shutting down really sucks. I am glad you are recognizing it and fighting for your vitality and survival.
On this board, I find I am always rooting for positive outcomes, even in the most bleak of circumstances. I do believe that two hurting and imperfect human beings can salvage the wrecks they have created...but both people have to be on board. Both have to want to save it. And that means looking inside and doing some very uncomfortable things, things your H may or may not be capable of.
Chrissy, I admire the honest talk that you had with your H and your boundary setting. You have done so much...take some time now to take care of you.
