I am very sorry you are going through all of this right now.
Listen, everything I have read about the recovery from an affairs sayd it takes time, alot of time. The emotions you are feeling right now are very normal.
Do you have an IC you are seeing? or are You and your H in MC.
Quote: I am still at a point where I cannot even make a decision whether to stay or go. I am in a stupor like state and don't know what to do
I understand, don't pressure yourself into making any decisions right now. You are not in a state of mind to be making life altering Choices.
Come here often and post, I know there are some very wise people around here that can help you better than I can right now.
