Dude, that was some great stuff!!!!!! I think you're right. Tonight, my W and I had a talk and she said she doesn't want the pressure. How do I do this? Our sitch is almost identical to yours other than we don't have kids. I need to know how to carry on with out loosing my marbles. I am totally focused on fixing and making me a better person. What do I look for when she starts to come around to my side? How will I know what's working?
I'm slowly starting to get over the pain after 29 days of living in an apartment. I just don't know what to do from this point on. We have one night as date night. We talk on the phone every night. She still says "I Love You". Do I cut all these things out? Do I stop taking care of the yard for her. The only reason I do that is so I can do my laundry there. Do I just detatch from her altogether? I just don't know what to do anymore. I have received some really great advice from some absolutely wonderful people on this site. I have put just about everything to good use. I know it's only been 29 days but when am I going to see some small signs?
