...for now (I am) trying to make sense out of my new life which doesn't include him! That is such a perfect statement for me to deliver to the xh because it is not angry, not loaded with other meanings, and it is direct. Thank you. Your sitch has opened some wounds. You have every reason to ask for some breathing room right now. Some old guy making "cow eyes" at another new "love", well it tarnishes all the meanings of the word love. I am so sorry your h is misbehaving in this manner.
NLF
You must grow in patience when you meet with great wrongs, and they will then be powerless to vex your mind. ---Leonardo da Vinci
