One quick thought about finances. Even though it is not a concern of yours right now, how would you feel if you had to pay support to H? That is the "warning" my L has given me several times. That would be a difficult concept for me to accept. But apparently it does happen in 2 career families.
NLF
You must grow in patience when you meet with great wrongs, and they will then be powerless to vex your mind. ---Leonardo da Vinci
