Thanks for the recap. It really has been a long time since you have had a thread of your own. I had no idea you were so close to divorce. How sad and what unnecessary pain your husband has inflicted on your family.
I sincerely hope your sons and their families are doing well even though I know they have been affected by your husbands actions as my family has. Even the little grandchildren feel the loss and tension from what's going on.
You have a very good attitude and I'm sure your faith is helping that. It's difficult to see one's spouse rip himself apart from the family and then expect to come sidling back in as he chooses after a forced divorce and home sale.
Are you at the point where you are looking for a new place to live yet or is it too soon for that? I hope you find something with a garden.
I know what you mean about uncharted territory - this is so far from what we thought we would be doing with our lives at this point in time. I hope that your job keeps you busy and that you are enjoying it.
