Our minds play so many tricks on us that affect our sex lives.

There seem to be too many women out there who have that whole "lie back and think of England" attitude when it comes to sex.

So many of us women were taught that "nice" girls don't do "it".
So when we grow up and are married and we have this man in front of us who wants to express his love to us with physical intimacy the garbage stays in our heads.

IF we enjoy it, then we are bad and feel guilty. We were taught that sex is for men to enjoy.
Sex is for procreation or for our Husband's "release".
Sex then becomes a weapon, a form of bribery and manipulation and it all becomes so thwarted.

The ironic thing is that many of these women have had affairs because they feel that they are not getting any attention from their Husbands when all along they were the ones witholding.

(Yes, I know your wife never had an affair) I have been reading many bookds on this subject and it has become a real eyeopener for me.
COG if I could share with you the things I have learned from my Husband these past few months......

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.