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[COG]

brandnewday,

I just read recently that many woman who are "together" and have this need to have things in total order don't like sex because they feel that during an orgasm they may lose control. They can not allow themselves to reach this point because it is something they can not control.

The more I think about it, the more I wonder. I've not really thought about that before. My W's mom taught her that sex was dirty when she was growing up. Her mom actually told her it was "dirty".
So maybe it's part fear of loosing control, and part what she believed growing up. Couple that with the other problem's we've had, and things start adding up.

Thanks,

COG