Thanks for sharing that. Our sitch's are a little different, of course. My W just has NO desire for physical intimacy. She just feels like I'm a good friend, not a lover. I've tried to explain how important sex is for me, and I think she understands. She just has NO desire, NO energy, NO nothing in terms of physical intimacy beyond the standard twice a day peck on the lips, and a hug, and an occasional cuddle which I always have to initiate. She's just not budging. We started out the year pretty good, had a few flings, but this last quarter has been completely dry.
It's not a deal breaker yet. I'm still hanging in there and hoping for a change. She's never been very assertive about sex. I've been the initiator every time for 18 years except maybe twice. I believe it can all turn around, changes can be made, miracles happen. But I can honestly say that I'm gettin tired and bored.
God Bless,
COG
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