Quote: It wasn't until I stopped being so selfish and began to understand what sex really meant to my Husband that things really began to change in that area.
Thank God you did that, it must have been very hard. What made you stop being selfish, and learn what sex really meant to H. What motivated you to change?
Quote: It was so hard to step out of the box I had put myself in and make myself vulnerable. To allow myself to enjoy sex again with him and actually understand what sex meant to my Husband.
I can tell you without any reservation, that is probably the greatest thing you could have ever done for him. I pray my W get's to that point some day.
Quote: Hang in there COG, maybe she may be your Christmas gift and you will get to unwrap her
I'll definately not expect that, but I'll definately accept that! Thanks!
God Bless,
COG
PS I highly doubt that my W will visit themarriagebed website on her own, but just in case, I'm going to email her with a link to it anyway.
My Story http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...&Number=660444&page=2#Post660444
Thanks!