New to Piecing

[COG]

Brandnewday,

Mars and Venus in the Bedroom sounds like a good one.

FYI, after I read your post yesterday evening I invited my W to sit with me and visit "themarriagebed.com". We spent about an hour reading through things. It was a little tense, my W would rather just ignore the problem, but she admitted that she needs to step out of her comfort zone.

So I was a little glad to read the part that said most people would just rather ignore the problem, which never goes away when ignored. I think she got that message. We talked alot about each other. If something seemed applicable to us, we'd mention and discuss it as we read. We ended up talking about how we felt when we first saw each other, when we first dated, when we first M, and what a great R we have now, but how it suck's that we are where we are today with physical intimaacy. We talked about how we got messed up, and what progress we've made.

All in all a good evening, but I definately need to lay off for awhile. Give her space, and not push it, or bring it up for awhile. One step at a time.

God Bless,

COG