I was way too much of a wuss in the past and would let it roll off - even when I wasn't deserving of the gift I was being given. W and I had our post TD decompression on Friday AM - and amazing what standing up for yourself can do. Funny, later that day, she came to me and asked "are we okay" to which I said absolutely. It was done, behind us and I stood my ground.
Good stuff.
Thanks for sharing.
Sven
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.