Quote: It's not my job to worry, it's my job to LIVE! Fear is a little thought planted by the devil. It's a great tool that scum sucking dog uses to anchor us down, so we don't move forward. Just take life one day at a time, live in reality, celebrate every moment you have.
I find myself getting caught up in "what ifs" sometimes, like: What if H doesn't feel like he can say he wants to come home? or What if he decide that he likes living on his own and never comes home? I needed to read this today--thanks! When you found yourself feeling fear, how did you release that?
Quote: Once in awhile I'll gently tell my W that it's OK if she ever finds someone else. That she deserves to be IL, happy, etc. That I let her down and I'll always be sorry.
I'm curious: under what circumstances do you say this? Do you still carry some guilt about letting her down? Is it more of a reassurance for her when she is having a hard day?
